Parenting is an art learn with “our brain our life”:
Scolding and pampering your child should go in hand in hand. Over pampering or over scolding might affect your child badly, so parents should always know that when to scold or when to pamper. In this articles we should focus on the impact of scolding:
How much should one scold the child? When does scolding become excessive? Most parents think that scolding is the right way to correct the wayward behavior. We must remember that children are quite different from adults .Children are the great imitator ,for example if you shout at them ,they will shout back, therefore unnecessary scolding will do more harm than benefits. Now what is the right way to tackle this issue?
Be aware of the consequences of scolding:
Scolding your child harshly can hurt him beyond the comprehension. Every child has his own emotions, some express them while other don’t .Understand your child and his sensitiveness.
Avoid Over reacting:
Over reacting is very common and natural with the parents . If child is not behaving properly or not performing well in studies parents over react ,rather they should understand the child capabilities or should put efforts to know what exactly is the problem and then try to find the solution of that problem.
Be communicative:
Always communicate with your child positive manner. Over scolding or yelling at child can cause him /her to withdraw the parents .Child start hiding their emotions, problems from the parents .That can cause a big problem in future