Child Counseling
“A Healthy Child is a Happy Child”
And a happy child becomes a responsible citizen.
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Children are the future of human race.
As parents, we plan differently to secure the future of our children. Some people buy securities like life insurance and medical insurance policies, while some other build property and bank balance.
In our effort to do so, we miss out the real essence of developing the mental and intellectual strength of our children, which is the real future.
A strong mind is behind a successful life. So, when we reach the threshold of time and find that the result is not realized as we had expected, we ultimately blame ourselves, our luck and the GOD. However, there is a lot more better way to secure the future of our child by giving her/him the right counselling at the right age.
The child begins to learn suggestibility from the fetal stage till the age of 9 years. Anything learned and captured in this period becomes the child suggestibility for the rest of the life. As a matter of fact, we cannot change the suggestibility, but only the "Behaviour".
This is also a period when maximum development of the child’s brain occurs. Hence, it becomes crucial for us as parents to give proper guidance to our children at this stage of their life. If we fail to take care properly, then various mental problems may surface at a later stage.
Our Hindu Purana has very beautiful and logical reference to the same.Think about the childhood of Dhruva. He was very keen to sit in the lap of his father. However, his father always refused. Anticipating that Dhruva was getting deprived of his father’s love and affection, his mother advised him to sit in the lap of GOD. He followed his mother’s advice and became one of the most successful person of his time.
Similarly, we can learn from the life of Duryodhana. From his childhood, Duryodhana learned jealousy, bad manners and inculcated a quarrelsome attitude. And the result is known to everyone. He was the cause of the death of so many people in Kurukshetra.
We have learned in many practical lessons that at times negative pressure works and builds the character of human being. For say, we always put pressure on our children to study hard to secure more marks. Without good marks and better grades, he/she would not get a good job and spoil the rest of his/her life. However, we hardly realise that our pressuring the child already starts spoiling his/her present – So how can the child’s future be bright?
The truth is that we do not know how the subconscious mind of human beings, especially a child’s mind takes such discouragements. Our mind is never encouraged by negative comments. At times, it becomes so hurt by these negative comments that depression starts to develop in the child. The intensity becomes so derogatory that the child goes up to commit suicidal attempts.
However, this never says that parents should not give suggestions to their children.
They must constantly guide and advise their children, but in a proper manner and patient manner. In a manner that the child realises where the loopholes are and becomes encouraged to follow their teachings.
As parents, you must need to learn the correct way to do so – A systematic psychological method is what is required.
Child counselling starts from fetal stage to childhood.
From fetal stage to toddler, a child thinks and behaves as if he/she still is part of the mother’s body. This is a time, child behaviour develops. Hence, this is the best time child counselling should be done at a very high level.
We can inculcate good habits at a very childhood stage, which grows as the behaviour of the child later.
True fact is that we cannot change the suggestibility of the child at a later stage.
We can only change the behaviour.
So, we must act on to develop the child psychology through proper and methodical counselling as soon as possible to present a better future to our children.
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