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“The old believe everything,
the middle-aged suspect everything,
the young know everything.”
- Oscar Wilde

The age between 40 and 55, known as the middle age, leaves us at a very crucial juncture of life. We are already settled in career and life – life seems to be contended and we are focused on securing our third generation. It is such a threshold of life where we are rapidly losing our youth and becoming more and more responsible.

Like, a beautiful rose also has thrones, mid-age has its own set of challenges. Responsibility towards the family and that of both the previous and future generations make us worrisome. The situation is just like an experienced batsman. Even a set batsman has to take proper guard, apply his skills and focus on individual ball equally. If he loses focus, he loses his wicket and eventually, the match.

Similarly, we should be focused on the new inning of life. We need to understand our young generation and adopt new things. Usually, there occur two types of situations.

1. Both partners are working in Office

Here, both are busy with their respective works. They are high in ambition and want to settle their second generation. Money is not an issue, but time is. They cannot find time to comfort each other and for the family. When anything wrong happens to their second generation, they play the blame game. Dissatisfaction in a relationship leads to extramarital affairs, at times.

 The irony is that the counterpart can understand the situation, but cannot take any fruitful step as she/he already has so much of responsibility. And the result is – Depression, Blood Pressure, Hypertension, Diabetes, Fear, Phobia etc.

2. One partner is working in Office and other in Home

The partner working in an office is surrounded by so many responsibilities that there is hardly any time spent at home. The homemaker, has now some time to spare, as children are grown up and no much work is there at home. However, as the spouse is too busy, she/he starts thinking negatively and vague things. Hence, the homemaker comes under fear, disagreements, fights, depression and an extramarital affair.

In both the cases, the future of children is at stake due to low family attachment. They need someone to explain their point of view to each other and try to bridge the gaps. The help of counsellor or therapist becomes very much required to smoothen their new innings.

A Happy Family can give better future for the next generation. 

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